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by katie
14 Jun 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: Hi, I am new & would greatly appreciate some guidance
Replies: 244
Views: 27656

Good for you Di,

WELLL SAID !!!

I couldnt of put it better myself !!

You are NOT i REPEAT NOT to blame,, I was almost in the same boat myself, who know I may still end up there, just waiting !!!!

GO GIRL !!!

Thinking of you
love always
K xx
by katie
13 May 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: I am new to BK world and would like some help too
Replies: 40
Views: 5754

Hi again, feel slightly stronger today. Been bit of bad day but have got through it and chatted to a lot of friends and family about the situation. They all say the same, "you cant carry on with it all ...". As update with the situation, I had few text messages from my husband today, is that all my ...
by katie
11 May 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: I am new to BK world and would like some help too
Replies: 40
Views: 5754

I do not feel i have anything to hide with which centres he has been to ... it has nothing to do with me and I am in no way attached. I think they are all bunch of wa*****s. Sorry for that but am so down by it all at the moment. Tired through lack of sleep, cant eat as I feel sick, drinking too much...
by katie
11 May 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: I am new to BK world and would like some help too
Replies: 40
Views: 5754

Hi again, I cant sleep, too much going on in head at the mo ... He goes to 2 centres Brentwood, Essex or Ilford. I feel that the ball in my court a bit now. I do not understand the whole BK thing. Only what I have picked up along the way. More from this site that him as he is very narrow minded abou...
by katie
10 May 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: I am new to BK world and would like some help too
Replies: 40
Views: 5754

Thank you for your words, it all got worse today, been totally ignored now. He left with no word, only a text message to say he is going. I cant believe our marriage has come to a end over a text message. I thought I was better than that ... I hate the BKWSU for what they have done. I am hurting so ...
by katie
10 May 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: I am new to BK world and would like some help too
Replies: 40
Views: 5754

Hi Again, Not been here for a while. Well, I do read everyone's posts, but been bit quiet ... All was going well for me, to good to be true and I did not want to tempt fate so to speak ... Had a great 3 weeks, since our last out burst, I finally started to think we was getting somewhere. He was my h...
by katie
03 May 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: Hi, I am new & would greatly appreciate some guidance
Replies: 244
Views: 27656

Hi Very hard one how to detach from someone that holds your heart. It all takes time and in that time you will become stronger. All I can comment on is from person experience.. do not make it easy for him. I know this sounds really hard and cruel but, Di, you know what I went through and fingers cro...
by katie
30 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: Hi, I am new & would greatly appreciate some guidance
Replies: 244
Views: 27656

Hi Di, So sorry to hear your news, cant believe that it has gone this way, as you say he will wake up one day, too late for you yes ... Good on you for ringing the centre I would do the same, if not turn up there one night, although they do not hear what they do not want to hear ... My thought are w...
by katie
19 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: I am new to BK world and would like some help too
Replies: 40
Views: 5754

Hi again, Still very confused. He wont have anything bad said about the BKs. I say to him that people on the forum have left through bad situation, money things etc and he just laughs it off!! We had a very in depth conversation last night. He was going on about he cant turn his back on it as he can...
by katie
16 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: Hi, I am new & would greatly appreciate some guidance
Replies: 244
Views: 27656

Hi Di, I certainly agree with you about the roller coaster ride. I almost got off of it but like you things have changed again now. Mine came to a head Easter weekend. I lost it with him, told him not to bother coming out with me to a party we had, I would have better time on my own. He still went b...
by katie
05 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: Hi, I am new & would greatly appreciate some guidance
Replies: 244
Views: 27656

Di I really feel for you and know where you are coming from. I am sure you will be fine, managed before, got 3 beautiful children etc, this will make us braver and wiser. I am just waiting for my husband to do the same. I am already preparing myself now, getting my life back, going to join the gym a...
by katie
04 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: A common link amongst the women
Replies: 101
Views: 15747

Hi, At the moment I know that he is not a proper BK, for whatever that is. I am worried that it is going to end up that way, Before I have said about doing it at home. He always says that he needs to be there, its peaceful. No they are the only one's he can talk to, who understand what he believes i...
by katie
03 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: A common link amongst the women
Replies: 101
Views: 15747

Now there's a question ?? What is it I want to know, cant really answer that as just cant get my head wrapped round all of it ... He has tried to expain things to me but to be honest it does bore me to tears, not showing any disrespect to anyone this is just my views ... why would I want to go sit i...
by katie
03 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: A common link amongst the women
Replies: 101
Views: 15747

Yes, they are always right. No matter what is said In the end I am supposed to see the light and will be grateful for it. I do not think so, what will happen in the world as far as im concerned will happen there is nothing I can do to prevent these things. So, all I can do is to enjoy what life has ...
by katie
03 Apr 2007
Forum: Newcomers backup
Topic: A common link amongst the women
Replies: 101
Views: 15747

Hi All, So much to take in. I do agree with you that we need help but know for sure he wouldn't go to Relate. He said last night that his behaviour is because he hasn't been practising. I said, "you were nice person when I meet you and you did not go then". He said, "its because he was going up to t...