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by enlightened
11 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: sexy avatar

Hi, Enlightened. Why are you sharing with all of us the pms you have been receiving from Ermine? Do you want to weaken his attempt to create some "intimate" feeling with you? :wink: If you feel a bit molested by the pms you are receiving, why not changing your avatar for a more masculine, phallic o...
by enlightened
11 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: What was that? ( ... Meeting in Madhuban with Bap-Dada)
Replies: 44
Views: 6977

Re: What was that? ( ... Meeting in Madhuban with Bap-Dada)

Bhog message – Sister Mohini at Global Harmony House Thursday April 10th, 2008 Om Shanti This morning there was this thought we are Shiv Kanya (daughters of Shiva) and there was a beautiful feeling. Baba accepted Bhog and Baba said that each one should remember: Who am I. It was a pure spiritual ex...
by enlightened
10 Apr 2008
Forum: For Ex-BKs & Common Room
Topic: Try to find the right way.
Replies: 4
Views: 841

Re: Try to find the right way.

I like this forum a lot,and try to learn from here,but it takes a miracle to get us on 1 line i think. Hear Hear Peterbindi, I absolutely agree with you. You know what, I don't even bother opening most of the posts as they remind me too much of the conditioning I have lived with since I was a child...
by enlightened
10 Apr 2008
Forum: All & Everything
Topic: Starlight
Replies: 13
Views: 2628

Re: Starlight

the moon is made of cheese and light comes from a switch Ay ay ay Mr Green, You made me fall of my chair in laughter again ... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: your comments are so funny ... you say very little but what you say touches people's hearts. W...
by enlightened
10 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

dear Sister sent at: 09 Apr 2008 from: ermine to: enlightened Dear Sister have a look at this university, i think it will be appropriate to your sensitivity, religion experience and creativity and for your parents. very creative atmosphere, non traditional for especial personality - everything abou...
by enlightened
09 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

There's nothing like the present moment!! There's nothing like the now. The now slips by before you know it and becomes your future [/color] Sorry i meant to say that the Now slips by before you know it and becomes the past and paints your future. I keep asking myself, how often can I/do I live in ...
by enlightened
09 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

You mentioned your family's immigration, I am making presumptions here, can you tell us or can you compare life for non-white BKs and white or Western BKs? Do the Senior Sisters treat the two differently and if so, why? Do Indian BKs talk about Western BKs, if so how? I am, I always have been and I...
by enlightened
08 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

Did you parents react? Was there more pressure there? Did you lose your parents further by leaving? Of course my BK parent reacted but fortunately I did not lose my parents because of that. I still felt a certain pressure though, a certain restriction in trying to live a normal life. I am not sure ...
by enlightened
07 Apr 2008
Forum: For Vishnu Party & all other Splinter Groups
Topic: The Mr Green Kumaris
Replies: 97
Views: 15677

Re: The Mr Green Kumaris

Oh boy!!! this is so so funny, I am falling off my chair in laughter :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :...
by enlightened
07 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

Dear ex-l I really don't know the exact turning point for me, however, I think I reached a stage where I was feeling so lonely, traumatised, soul-less, no life, drowning in suppression, domination, powerlessness, rigidity, unhappiness, angry, sad etc. One day, my intuition just told me to stop goin...
by enlightened
07 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

My parents were really great only the role that both my parents played was unhealthy to a certain extent partly due to not having any money at all when I was born. They did not even have enough milk to feed me with when I was born. Both having to change countries in order to earn a living, to work f...
by enlightened
06 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

Hi ex-l Thanks for your mail. No, Ermine did not frighten me off at all. I did not take much notice of some of the things people have said as i think i am wise enough to know what is useful for me from this forum. I think it is important for me to only take that which is constructive and beneficial ...
by enlightened
06 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

Hi everyone Thanks for all your input. Some of it has been useful. Ermine, I have no idea who you are calling darling, I certainly hope you are not calling me your darling as I am certainly not your darling! You sound to me as if you are quite a confused man. With reference to my childhood I think ...
by enlightened
05 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Re: Having a partner, getting married and becoming a mum,dad etc

But your have to have partner, the problem of modern world is to have right partner. Your can find him there in Yoga centers. I do not want to give you an advice about it. Dear Ermine Thank you for your response. I just wanted to clarify that I was not asking for advice on where or how to find a pa...
by enlightened
05 Apr 2008
Forum: Ex-BK
Topic: Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc
Replies: 68
Views: 9340

Having a partner, getting married & becoming a mum, dad etc

As a child being brought up with the influence of the Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University, having a partner was a no-no, getting married was out of the question and having children, well, we were told that why bring more children into the world when Destruction is going to take place anyway? ...