befree wrote:It would be interesting to find out if many BKs have decided to go and set up their own centres or places of meditation due to inappropriate behaviour of souls in charge. And if they set them up against the wishes of those in charge or the Seniors. Maybe they removed the name Brahma Kumaris to avoid the politics.
You have said- The aim is to be free from influence of anything, even qualities (sanskaar) of self. There is a Murli point that says- braahmanon ki khitpit ati honey ke baad hi anth hogaa = The problems in BKWSU will end only after reaching high (climax)
Now, if I would have been in the place of above soul- I would like to be like this- Meet those BKs who are ready to open centres of their own, but internally be satisfied what BKWSU does. That is- have a separate set up, but coordinate and cooperate with BKWSU to the extent possible but never to have any bad wishes for them. Because without BKWSU, BKs have no existence.
Moreover, it is better to visit centre once in a week and maintain a detached and close relation with BKWSU. If they ask or suspect us, try to convince like considering them as member of our family or keep quiet. But never raise the head. It is better if we do take place in service activities - what all we can do.
For murlis- take any old Murlis and read them. Or there are plenty of Avyakt Murlis. And I think- today many centres send Murlis of translated versions. You can become member- yearly fee- Rs 750/- for example- one can get Murli in kannada language - Rs 750/- per year.
I have done a plan and is just going to begin. I know a surrendered Brother. He is fed at centre. He has some land but no home/building. He wishes to have some place where he can do spiritual study in a calm place. He requested me to give some money. I remembered him the srimath that- BKs cannot give and take money. But I know very well that- his faith is accurate and also had done money service before his surrenderring. But then I said him- I will give money, let us construct a small building- 200 sq ft.
He was ready to register some land in my name. I said no need for me. He was happy to do WILL in BKWSU name.
So- I have sent him money - 25% of the expected total cost and construction will begin.
I know some other BKs who are not able to stand themselves. So- I will tell them like this-
Have faith in every BK. But if you are going to have close relation ship with any BK or Sister in charge- then make these points clear- Do not find fault in others. Even if you find, do not get influenced. Because no one is perfect at present. Put money, but do not expect that your plans will be fulfilled. Try to change but do not expect change. Because our own team members may leave gyaan one day. So- while investing money, be careful that you are going to invest small part of your money or be sure that you have legal rights to the share you have invested.
Or if you have your own place, then invite other BKs for that place for doing spiritual effort. But make sure that others do not feel that place as yours, but as good as Babas.
Plan properly as much as possible, but have plain buddhi (clear intellect).
even if BKWSU criticizes us, we should keep quite and be ready to either be in the team (BKWSU), or outside, but love BKWSU as we love ourselves.
Even if the team invests money for that, internally, feel that it is BKWSU that has given money to us. [The point is- the surrendered BK above mentioned - what I said to him is- see now you bow your head to the centre incharge since you are in difficult state. After this building , when you come in front of that Sister in charge, do not feel any ego. For that- internally feel that- Baba has given money to you (not ME) through the same Sister incharge. So- you will never have any conflict with the Sister incharge.
So- externally do not follow instructions given by BK Sisters when they are incorrect, but internally have no discomfort with them.
I have another soul who has met me and is about to do self study. That soul is on job and is going to take VRS. That soul also has some land. But she is a Sister and has some bondage. I will tell that soul- Have a separate room for spiritual study. If you do not have, be ready to invest some money and construct a small room in your land. I am also ready to give some money. If possible, get that land in your name before construction. But if not possible- if that land is in her relatives' name, after your death, even if that land goes to your relatives, it is OK. Do not worry. Make your intellect ready for that. Let that money be spent like that.
Like Baba says- when you do service, even if just one soul becomes BK, it is auspicious/good. Even if none becomes BK, it is good. Because you have given the message.
Murli point- nischaybuddhivaalon ko ghaataa pad nahin saktaa= one whose intellect is faithful, will not suffer loss.
Agar santusht ho, toh tumhaaraa kharchaa safal huvaa = If you are satisfied, your expenditure is a success.
Make these things clear to BK members who wish to join the team and proceed.